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Helping Your Child Adjust to a New Baby

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Helping Your Child Adjust to a New Baby

The thought of sharing Mammy and Daddy with a baby brother or sister can be unsettling for a young child. After all, your little one has had your full attention for some time now. He is sure to have mixed emotions about how life will change when the baby comes home.

The best time to tell your child the exciting news is when Mammy ’s belly becomes noticeably larger or 2 months before the baby’s arrival. If you tell much sooner, the wait will be too long for your little one. However, if you wait too much longer, she won't have enough time to adjust to the idea of an addition to the family.

There are many ways you can prepare your firstborn for the arrival of a little brother or sister, such as:

  • Reinforcing his new role as big brother by referring to your baby as “his little brother or sister” instead of “the new baby” or “Mammy’s baby.”
  • Involving her in the preparation of baby’s arrival by letting her help choose the baby’s name and coming home outfit, helping to decorate the nursery and helping to pack Mammy’s suitcase for the hospital.
  • Letting him tag along on pre-natal visits so he can hear the baby’s heartbeat or see images of the baby during the ultrasound scan.
  • Read books on becoming a big brother/sister or about the arrival of a new sibling.

While you are at the hospital, be sure to keep in touch with your child as much as you can. It will reassure your child that everything is okay and that you will be coming home as soon as possible. When he visits the hospital, be sure baby is in a cot so that your hands are free to give him a big hug.

When taking your new baby home it might be a good idea to allow the new baby to bring a small gift to your young child. This is a great way of getting him on the side of his new generous brother or sister!

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